Category: Obituaries

Marcia Lovall

On October 28th, 2023, Marcia Hilda Lovall went home peacefully to be with our Lord after a short battle with cancer. She was the proud biological mother of 3 children, but many others considered her a mom. She was a stay-at-home mom that cared deeply for her family and neighbors. She did this not out of obligation, but because of who she was. She was Selfless, generous and caring. She expressed a deep sense of concern for others. She was always the first to offer help. She cared for the sick and she always ensured that every child who crossed her threshold was safe, healthy, and happy. Marcia absolutely loved and adored her grandchildren. They were her pride and joy! She lived a life devoted to family. She enjoyed doing her nails, loved coffee, visiting with friends, giving gifts, going on outings, watching the news and going on Facebook. Her faithful daily text messages will never be forgotten. Marcia faced many difficulties in her life such as being a single mother and not having a lot of money. She always made something out of nothing! When anyone else would have broken, Marcia stayed strong. Through her, we know what resilience and perseverance truly look like. There was no quit in Marcia. She has fought the good fight, and she has won. She is survived by her 3 children, Elizabeth Diane Amanda Lovall-Motyka (DeLorm), Lynn Marie Motyka and Shannon Louise Watson adopted daughter Adrianna Rose Billone; Her grandchildren Bianca Marcia Sue DeLorm, Dominic James Motyka, Makayla Tamara DeLorm, Kristopher Robert Collins Jr., Levi Johnathon Motyka-Sheffer. Marcia Is also survived by her former husband John Motyka and former spouse Shawn Watson. Forever remembered by her siblings, Charles (Joanne) Lovall, Catherine (Timothy) Gaspar, Joyce (Charles) McGarry, Gary Lovall, Karen (Jim) McAllister, James (Heather) Lovall, Michele (Harold Goode) Rudak, Scott (Cheryl) Lovall; her beloved friend who she considered a sister, Melanie Vahl; many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. Marcia is predeceased by her father, Lawrence John Lovall, her mother, Diane Mary Lovall (Bell), brother Lawrence Edwin Lovall, brother Michael David Lovall, and cousin William Humphrey.

Her graveside service will be held on Saturday November 4th, 11am at Mount Hope Cemetery. Please meet at main entrance.

Ruth Cariola

Passed away on October 31, 2023. She is survived by her loving family. Her graveside service will be held on Friday November 3rd, 1pm at Riverside Cemetery.

Lewis A. Scutiere

Webster- September 26, 2023 Lewis passed away peacefully at the age of 82. Predeceased by his parents Frank and Mary and sister Anne Sepe.  Survived by his wife Leslie, daughter Cheryl (David) Lazerus and son Frank, grandchildren Alicia, Ryan and Michael, brother-in-law Robert Sepe, niece Amanda and several cousins.

Lew was a Production Manager at Kodak for 28 years.  He was also a do- it- yourself craftsman and had a passion for working on and remodeling his cottage in Cape Vincent in the Thousand Islands.  He was an avid fisherman and boater, and after retirement, he and his wife took up golfing and loved to spend their time traveling and cruising.

Calling hours will be Tuesday 4-7pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. His Graveside service will be Wednesday at 11am at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Please meet at Lake Ave gate. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in his memory to the American Heart Association.

Kathleen Elizabeth Kanealey Burns

Of Port Charlotte Florida passed away June 8, 2023. Born May 3, 1945, to John Kanealey and Geraldine Barnum Kanealy of Rochester, NY. She was predeceased by her husband John J. Burns. She is survived by her son Matthew (Lynette) Peters, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

After completing her master’s degree, Kathleen worked as a certified substance abuse counselor both in private practice and later at a correctional facility.

A lifelong friend of Bill Wilson’s she was passionate about helping people in every phase of recovery. Strong-willed, determined and quick witted, Kathleen always advocated for the underdog. She not only advocated for the human underdog but the canine variety as well. At one time she had five dogs that she cared for and enjoyed.
She took pleasure in creating and tending to her beautiful gardens. She was also a bird lover and had many rescued birds that she cared for.

Besides caring for her beautiful gardens and precious animals, Kathleen knew how to tend to herself. She could always put together the perfect outfit and look amazing. She was definitely one of a kind, she will be missed.

Her Mass of remembrance will be celebrated on Wednesday September 27th, 10:30am at Holy Cross Church.

Lee Ann Schroeder

December 19, 1961 – September 1, 2023.

Lee Ann (Sailer) Schroeder passed away at home on September 1, 2023 at age 61, after a fierce battle with cancer. She is predeceased by her parents, Cyril (CJ) and Patricia Sailer, as well as her nephew Joshua Berna, and is survived by her husband Brian, children Nick and Natalia, her siblings Lori Anne (Kevin) Cusack, Elizabeth Ann (Ron) Berna, Lisa Anne (Stuck) Coffey, James Patrick (Marj) Sailer, and Lynette Ann (Spencer) Brush, her in-laws Mike and Cheryl Martin-Schroeder and Vicki Schroeder, and all their children and grandchildren, her precious cats, and many good and dear friends.

Lee was born and raised in Rochester and graduated from Pusan American High School in Pusan, South Korea, where most of her family lived from the late 70s to the early 80s. Upon her return to the States, Lee attended classes at Slippery Rock University, St. John Fisher College, and RIT, and later in her life at Onondaga School of Therapeutic Massage, where she earned her license to practice massage therapy. She also, over the years, worked at Greater Rochester Cablevision/Time Warner Cable, RG&E, Highland Hospital, and UR/Strong, among others.

Lee touched so many people with her awesome sense of humor, great storytelling, and always putting others before herself. Some of the things Lee loved most were her pets, James Taylor, Bonnie Raitt, Billy Joel, singing, theater, scallops, Sex in the City, Facebook games, and coffee. She hated tomatoes and “real” potatoes… “they taste like dirt!”

Per Lee’s wishes, there will be no calling hours or funeral. There will be a celebration of her life for friends and family on Sunday, April 28, 2024, at Knollwood Lodge at Northhampton Park from 12-4:00.

Hilda M. Mulay

Passed peacefully on September 9, 2023, with her loving family by her side. Daughter of the late Cesare and Rose Cirulli, Hilda was predeceased by her devoted husband of 67 years, Joseph J. Mulay and her son David Mulay. Also predeceasing her were her sisters Lee Sapienza and Norma O’Brien, and her brother Victor Cirulli. She is survived by her children, Daniel (Angela) Mulay and Sandra (Kevin) Casey, her grandchildren, Alexandra Casey, Jennifer Casey, Kathryn Casey, and Brandon Mulay, her great-grandchild, Luna Casey-Marquez, and several nieces and nephews.

Hilda was born in Brooklyn, NY in 1928 with the given name of Ilda Cirulli. A child of Italian immigrants, she spoke Italian first and quickly learned English when she started elementary school, where her teacher changed her name to “Hilda.” Her family moved to Rochester, NY when she was 3 years old. She worked at Kodak as a young adult and became a full-time homemaker after her children were born. She supported her husband’s business Union Auto Parts, helping him with administrative tasks, but most importantly taking care of everything at home. A tremendous cook, she made the most delicious spaghetti sauce that no one could quite duplicate. She was very artistic, mastering ceramics and crewel and adorning her home with her many creations. She had a nurturing spirit, providing a warm and loving home to all who entered. Her children were truly blessed with the best mother on earth.

Hilda will be remembered for her sweet and friendly disposition, good humor, and not to mention her beautiful red hair. She was a fashionista, always looking her best, and did not want to be left out of wearing the most up-to-date styles. She sported glittery crocs just recently. She also loved her TV and watching her favorite show-The Golden Girls. But mostly she enjoyed just being with her family, especially her little Luna. Hilda’s family would like to thank The Community Hospice and all the staff at Elderwood Village for their incredible care, with a special thanks to her caregivers J.J. and Nigeria. The family is also grateful for Megan Garay, who provided several years of companionship to Hilda prior to her move to Elderwood.

Calling hours will be Wednesday September 20th from 4-7pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd.  Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated Thursday 10am at St. Kateri at Christ the King Church 445 Kings Highway S. Entombment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, Hilda’s family suggests donations in her honor to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or stjude.org/donatetoday.

Neal Irving Budd, affectionately known as Uncle Neal, joined the ancestors on September 11, 2023. Born in Rochester, New York on February 18, 1952, to Charles and Clarissa Budd, he grew up in Brighton with siblings Wayne, Cynthia, Gary, Stevie, Sharon, David, and Bobby.

The consummate Boy Scout, he was raised in the traditions and beliefs that held that group together. Integrity, care, belief, cooperation, and a respect for nature were all core tenants he held so dear.  A passionate nature enthusiast, Neal found solace in the waters & wilderness, pursuing hobbies like bird watching, gardening, hunting, and fishing. He was an admitted eccentric, sharing his opinions and interests with anyone who would listen. Neal was a familiar face in the community, often seen riding his “Pee-Wee Herman” bike.

Neal dedicated many years volunteering at the Charlotte Genesee Lighthouse, imparting his wealth of knowledge to all who visited. He was also involved with the Rochester Public Market.

Neal cherished his family: children Margo, Ian, Emily, and Lena; grandchildren Evelyn, Vivian, Corinne, and Deacon; and too many nieces and nephews to count.

A Celebration of Life will be held at the Powderhorn Lodge, off Woolston Rd, in Powder Mills Park in Pittsford, Friday, September 22, 2023, from 3 to 7pm. All are welcome; dress accordingly and don’t forget to BYOB, as Neal would have wanted.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making donations to two of Neal’s favorite local haunts:

Charlotte-Genesee Lighthouse: https://geneseelighthouse.org/donate

Rochester NY Public Market:  https://www.marketfriends.org/give