Obituary of Ruth Cariola
Ruth Cariola
Passed away on October 31, 2023. She is survived by her loving family. Her graveside service will be held on Friday November 3rd, 1pm at Riverside Cemetery.
Obituary of Kurt Bonke
Kurt Bonke
Suddenly at age 63.
Predeceased by his mother Marion Pieniaszek Bonke.
Survived by his father, Roger Bonke; brother Mark (Christine) Bonke; sister Jean Bonke: several nieces, nephews, cousins, and close friends.
Services will be held privately.
Obituary of Linda Shute
Linda M. Shute
SPRINGWATER – formerly of Hilton, passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family at age 81 on October 17, 2023.
Predeceased by her parents Arthur and Dorothy Rast, and sisters Eleanor Reinhard and Marion Norman.
Survived by her beloved husband James; her twin sister Martha Hosford; children Melody (Aaron) Thibault, Timothy (Carla) Shute, Bethany (Michael) Hardesty, Amberly Shute and Carl Shute; 6 grandchildren, and many nieces, nephews, and friends.
Many thanks to the Teresa House for their loving care during her last days.
Services were held privately with her family.
Obituary of Lewis A. Scutiere
Lewis A. Scutiere
Webster- September 26, 2023 Lewis passed away peacefully at the age of 82. Predeceased by his parents Frank and Mary and sister Anne Sepe. Survived by his wife Leslie, daughter Cheryl (David) Lazerus and son Frank, grandchildren Alicia, Ryan and Michael, brother-in-law Robert Sepe, niece Amanda and several cousins.
Lew was a Production Manager at Kodak for 28 years. He was also a do- it- yourself craftsman and had a passion for working on and remodeling his cottage in Cape Vincent in the Thousand Islands. He was an avid fisherman and boater, and after retirement, he and his wife took up golfing and loved to spend their time traveling and cruising.
Calling hours will be Tuesday 4-7pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. His Graveside service will be Wednesday at 11am at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Please meet at Lake Ave gate. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in his memory to the American Heart Association.
Obituary of Kathleen Kanealey Burns
Kathleen Elizabeth Kanealey Burns
Of Port Charlotte Florida passed away June 8, 2023. Born May 3, 1945, to John Kanealey and Geraldine Barnum Kanealy of Rochester, NY. She was predeceased by her husband John J. Burns. She is survived by her son Matthew (Lynette) Peters, nieces, nephews, and cousins.
After completing her master’s degree, Kathleen worked as a certified substance abuse counselor both in private practice and later at a correctional facility.
A lifelong friend of Bill Wilson’s she was passionate about helping people in every phase of recovery. Strong-willed, determined and quick witted, Kathleen always advocated for the underdog. She not only advocated for the human underdog but the canine variety as well. At one time she had five dogs that she cared for and enjoyed.
She took pleasure in creating and tending to her beautiful gardens. She was also a bird lover and had many rescued birds that she cared for.
Besides caring for her beautiful gardens and precious animals, Kathleen knew how to tend to herself. She could always put together the perfect outfit and look amazing. She was definitely one of a kind, she will be missed.
Her Mass of remembrance will be celebrated on Wednesday September 27th, 10:30am at Holy Cross Church.
Obituary of Thurman Bliss
Therman L. Bliss of Rochester, NY Passed unexpectedly on September 5, 2023, a week from his birthday on September 15th. Born in Wellsville N.Y. to the late John and Hilda Bliss. At the age of 3yrs his family moved to Rochester N.Y.
Therman attended Madison High School and joined the United States Air Force. He was stationed in Germany. He served on many boards in the city of Rochester.
He is survived by his wife of 34 years Alma Bliss, until his time of passing. Siblings, Myra Chandler, Vanessa Bliss, Kevin Bliss Sr., Zaida Roldan, and Christopher Bliss Sr., a longtime family friend John Williams, and a very supportive nephew and friend Loren Caples Sr., a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.
Corinthians; For we know that if our earthly house of this tabernacle were dissolved, we take a building of GOD, a house not made with hands, eternal in the Heavens.
Obituary of Lee Schroeder
Lee Ann Schroeder
December 19, 1961 – September 1, 2023.
Lee Ann (Sailer) Schroeder passed away at home on September 1, 2023 at age 61, after a fierce battle with cancer. She is predeceased by her parents, Cyril (CJ) and Patricia Sailer, as well as her nephew Joshua Berna, and is survived by her husband Brian, children Nick and Natalia, her siblings Lori Anne (Kevin) Cusack, Elizabeth Ann (Ron) Berna, Lisa Anne (Stuck) Coffey, James Patrick (Marj) Sailer, and Lynette Ann (Spencer) Brush, her in-laws Mike and Cheryl Martin-Schroeder and Vicki Schroeder, and all their children and grandchildren, her precious cats, and many good and dear friends.
Lee was born and raised in Rochester and graduated from Pusan American High School in Pusan, South Korea, where most of her family lived from the late 70s to the early 80s. Upon her return to the States, Lee attended classes at Slippery Rock University, St. John Fisher College, and RIT, and later in her life at Onondaga School of Therapeutic Massage, where she earned her license to practice massage therapy. She also, over the years, worked at Greater Rochester Cablevision/Time Warner Cable, RG&E, Highland Hospital, and UR/Strong, among others.
Lee touched so many people with her awesome sense of humor, great storytelling, and always putting others before herself. Some of the things Lee loved most were her pets, James Taylor, Bonnie Raitt, Billy Joel, singing, theater, scallops, Sex in the City, Facebook games, and coffee. She hated tomatoes and “real” potatoes… “they taste like dirt!”
Per Lee’s wishes, there will be no calling hours or funeral. There will be a celebration of her life for friends and family on Sunday, April 28, 2024, at Knollwood Lodge at Northhampton Park from 12-4:00.
Obituary of Hilda Mulay
Hilda M. Mulay
Passed peacefully on September 9, 2023, with her loving family by her side. Daughter of the late Cesare and Rose Cirulli, Hilda was predeceased by her devoted husband of 67 years, Joseph J. Mulay and her son David Mulay. Also predeceasing her were her sisters Lee Sapienza and Norma O’Brien, and her brother Victor Cirulli. She is survived by her children, Daniel (Angela) Mulay and Sandra (Kevin) Casey, her grandchildren, Alexandra Casey, Jennifer Casey, Kathryn Casey, and Brandon Mulay, her great-grandchild, Luna Casey-Marquez, and several nieces and nephews.
Hilda was born in Brooklyn, NY in 1928 with the given name of Ilda Cirulli. A child of Italian immigrants, she spoke Italian first and quickly learned English when she started elementary school, where her teacher changed her name to “Hilda.” Her family moved to Rochester, NY when she was 3 years old. She worked at Kodak as a young adult and became a full-time homemaker after her children were born. She supported her husband’s business Union Auto Parts, helping him with administrative tasks, but most importantly taking care of everything at home. A tremendous cook, she made the most delicious spaghetti sauce that no one could quite duplicate. She was very artistic, mastering ceramics and crewel and adorning her home with her many creations. She had a nurturing spirit, providing a warm and loving home to all who entered. Her children were truly blessed with the best mother on earth.
Hilda will be remembered for her sweet and friendly disposition, good humor, and not to mention her beautiful red hair. She was a fashionista, always looking her best, and did not want to be left out of wearing the most up-to-date styles. She sported glittery crocs just recently. She also loved her TV and watching her favorite show-The Golden Girls. But mostly she enjoyed just being with her family, especially her little Luna. Hilda’s family would like to thank The Community Hospice and all the staff at Elderwood Village for their incredible care, with a special thanks to her caregivers J.J. and Nigeria. The family is also grateful for Megan Garay, who provided several years of companionship to Hilda prior to her move to Elderwood.
Calling hours will be Wednesday September 20th from 4-7pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated Thursday 10am at St. Kateri at Christ the King Church 445 Kings Highway S. Entombment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, Hilda’s family suggests donations in her honor to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or stjude.org/donatetoday.
Obituary of Neal Budd
Neal Irving Budd, affectionately known as Uncle Neal, joined the ancestors on September 11, 2023. Born in Rochester, New York on February 18, 1952, to Charles and Clarissa Budd, he grew up in Brighton with siblings Wayne, Cynthia, Gary, Stevie, Sharon, David, and Bobby.
The consummate Boy Scout, he was raised in the traditions and beliefs that held that group together. Integrity, care, belief, cooperation, and a respect for nature were all core tenants he held so dear. A passionate nature enthusiast, Neal found solace in the waters & wilderness, pursuing hobbies like bird watching, gardening, hunting, and fishing. He was an admitted eccentric, sharing his opinions and interests with anyone who would listen. Neal was a familiar face in the community, often seen riding his “Pee-Wee Herman” bike.
Neal dedicated many years volunteering at the Charlotte Genesee Lighthouse, imparting his wealth of knowledge to all who visited. He was also involved with the Rochester Public Market.
Neal cherished his family: children Margo, Ian, Emily, and Lena; grandchildren Evelyn, Vivian, Corinne, and Deacon; and too many nieces and nephews to count.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Powderhorn Lodge, off Woolston Rd, in Powder Mills Park in Pittsford, Friday, September 22, 2023, from 3 to 7pm. All are welcome; dress accordingly and don’t forget to BYOB, as Neal would have wanted.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making donations to two of Neal’s favorite local haunts:
Charlotte-Genesee Lighthouse: https://geneseelighthouse.org/donate
Rochester NY Public Market: https://www.marketfriends.org/give
Obituary of Nicholas P. Grillo
Suddenly on September 15, 2023 at 31. Predeceased by his grandparents Phyllis and Phil Borzilleri, and Frances and Vincent Grillo, and Aunt JoAnn Ronayne.
He is survived by his father Vincent Grillo, mother Kim (Mark) Vandertang, brother Matthew Grillo, many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Please be a part of our family as we say goodbye to Nicholas, a loving son, big brother, and best friend to many.
Calling hours will be Tuesday September 19th, from 4-8pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. His Funeral Service will be celebrated on Wednesday September 20th, 10am at the funeral home, followed by interment at Irondequoit Cemetery.