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Obituary of Joyce Desiderio

Joyce Desiderio (Consler)- entered into eternal rest on November 17, 2022. She was a beloved wife of 53 years to John Richard Desiderio. She was predeceased by her parents Ralph and Helen Consler; her brother Robert Consler; sister-in-law Susan Consler-Versa; and brothers-in- law John Iuppa and Lawrence Block. She is survived by her brother Donald Consler; her sister Gayle Iuppa; brother-in-law Thomas (Peggy) Desiderio; and 4 sisters-in-law: Ann Consler; Rosemary (Peter) Yurkewicz; Margaret Block; and Kathleen Faticone. Joyce was a loving aunt to 14 nieces and nephews, 19 great nieces and nephews and 5 great, great nieces and nephews. Joyce traveled and lived in many states and countries supporting her husband through a combined 41-year military and Federal Civil Service career. Settling in Maryland, Joyce started an independent business working for twenty-two years as a self-employed bookkeeper for up to ten local businesses at one time. Joyce always made the time to volunteer in many important church activities such decorating the altar area of multiple Catholic Churches, organizing “Time, Talent and Treasure” fairs, and assisting the Red Cross staff and patients at the Walter Reed National Military Medical Center for over ten years. She blessed the hearts of all who knew her. Visitations and a Mass of Christian Burial will take place in Damascus, MD on November 28th and November 29th . Interment will take place at Holy Sepulchre Catholic Cemetery located at 2461 Lake Avenue; Rochester, NY 14612 on December 6th at 10:30. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the ALS Association or the Red Cross.

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Obituary of Sharon Lee Mulley

Sharon Lee Mulley

Passed away on October 11, 2022, at 59, after a long battle with illnesses.
Predeceased by her parents, Anthony & Sarah Tassone; and her sister, Diane Tassone.
She is survived by her loving husband, John Mulley; and many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

Services will be held privately.

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Obituary of Bonnie A. Chandler

Bonnie A. Chandler

Rochester-Passed away unexpectedly on September 8, 2022, at age 74. Predeceased by her parents Vincent & Lila Stevens. Beloved mother of Becky (David) Keefe, and Robert (Jessie) Chandler, loving grandmother of Mackenzie Keefe, Madeline Keefe, and Cody Chandler, sister of Bud (Frannie) Stevens, Vaughn Stevens, Dale (Joan) Stevens, and Dawn Everett. She also leaves many nieces, nephews, and family friends.

Bonnie worked at V.H. Lang Trophies and later became a CNA before retiring. She devoted her time to gardening, listening to country music and enjoying family & friends.

Friends are invited to join the family on Sunday September 18th, from 11am-12pm, followed by her funeral service at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. Rochester, NY 14609.

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Obituary of Donald R. Parker Jr.

 

Donald “Sonny” R. Parker Jr.

12/31/1953-8/26/2022

Predeceased by his parents Donald & Edith. Survived by his children Jared (Nicole) Triggs; Anthony Parker; Chelsea (Philip) Williams; four grandchildren, eight siblings, dear friend and mother of Anthony & Chelsea, Cheryl Cannella, many nieces, nephews and friends.

Don was a RCSD teacher for 20 years, truly his calling. Music was his passion. He was lead vocalist and drummer in a local band for many years. He brought endless joy, laughter & love to our lives. We know he will be enjoying his music and motorcycle in his next journey.

Calling hours will be Saturday September 17th, from 11am-3pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd.

 

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Obituary of Mary Alice Meyers

Mary Alice B. Meyers (Miller)

August 20,2022 at age 93. Predeceased by her parents Irene Frank, and John Miller, brother John Miller, husband Norman, son Daniel Meyers and dear friends Babe Schaefer and Shirley Dausch.

She is survived by children Charleen Calabro (Joseph), Neill(Dawn), Bryan, Bruce(Leeanna), Thomas Meyers. Grandchildren Matthew (Kathrine), Michael Calabro, Jeffrey(Connie) Meyers, Jason(Mizuki)Meyers, Jessica(Todd) Thibaut, Lindsey (Melvin) Rivera, Bryan Jr. (Carley) Meyers, David, Joey and CJ Meyers. 15 Great grandchildren. Longtime friend Terri Smith, devoted aid Toni Owens and many close friends.

She was active in the Ridge Culver Ladies Auxiliary, St. Kateri Women’s Bible Study group, St. Cecilia’s Ladies Guild and St. Cecilia’s Outreach Committee.

Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated Monday 8/29, 10am at St. Cecilia’s Church . Interment, Irondequoit Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those wishing may direct contributions to the School of The Holy Childhood in her memory.

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Obituary of Gregory Costich

GREGORY E. COSTICH

Born August 3, 1947, passed away July 15, 2022 in Melbourne, Florida.  He is survived by his wife Sandra K. Unger and his sister Jerilyn Costich and many cousins.

He attended Eastridge High School and was without question the best competitive diver in the Rochester area.  His high school record, set in 1965, still stands.  He was inducted into the Section V Swimming and Diving Hall of Fame. He continued diving at Colgate University.  While there, he placed 9th in the nation.

His love of the sport was passed on as he coached at both Monmouth College and Rutgers University.

He was a professional photographer in New Jersey for many years, specializing in truly unique activity and sport photos for high school yearbooks. He moved to Florida with his wife Sandy 17 years ago to get away from winter. He had a passion for movies and music, as seen by his vast collection of both. It was impossible to trip him up on trivia related to these topics.  One of his favorite things to do was to go to concerts to celebrate the old and discover new talents. He stayed close to his Phi Psi fraternity brothers from Colgate.  He would never miss a reunion or an opportunity to go on some adventure with his Phi Psi brothers.

Greg was a special man and will be sorely missed.  He will be buried in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Rochester with his family.

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Obituary of James Alan Dawson

James Alan Dawson

 Beloved husband, father, brother, grandfather and friend, died peacefully at home on August 2, 2022, at the age of 80.  Born in London, England during WWII to James and Minnie Fullforth Dawson, he became a chemist, working for British Rail and Johnson Mathey before moving to Rank Xerox at age 26 to head his own lab.  He received patents for toners, going on to increased responsibilities and residences in Rochester, NY and Gloucester, England, ultimately managing 300 engineers in Welwyn Garden City, and somehow found time to run 7 marathons.  Before taking early retirement, he became CEO of the Hertfordshire Chamber of Commerce and Industry.Upon moving to the US, he started AIMM Inc. for international export consulting.  He will live on in his wife, Lorna Diehl Dawson; children, Simon, Angela and David Dawson; brother, David Dawson; step-children, Jason (Bonnie) Diehl, Dr. Courtney Diehl; granddaughters, Cydney and Paige Dawson and Sunny and Morgan Winn.  He was a lovely man, kind and funny, and he was always happy.  He built furniture, some massive stone retaining walls, a hilly woodland path and a deer-proof raised bed garden for his vegetables, when he was not watching his Arsenal FC games.  He will be sadly missed.

His graveside funeral service will be held on Monday August 8th, 10:30am at White Haven Memorial Park. Please gather at main entrance. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in his memory to UR Medicine Home Care 2180 Empire Blvd. Webster, NY 14580.

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Obituary of Vincent Messina

Vincent Messina

June 30, 2022 at age 89. Predeceased by his wife Michelina, brother Paul, sister Pauline and brother-in-law Harold. Survived by his daughter Susan (Lew) Foster, son Paul Messina, stepchildren Nick Riola and Donna (Mary) Riola, grandchildren Angela (Edward) Samoel, Julianne Foster, and Alexander Riola, great granddaughter Gianna Samoel, many nieces & nephews, and his dear friend Tony Piccolo (“T”).

Vince was a graduate of Aquinas High School and later served his country in the U.S. Army during the Korean War in the early 1950’s.  He loved baseball and played for many years.  He also enjoyed bowling, playing cards, the horse races, and casino trips.

His Funeral Mass will be celebrated Friday July 8th, 11am at St. Joseph’s Church in Penfield, followed by interment with military honors at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.

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Obituary of Betty Adams

Betty Adams passed away at her beloved home in Brighton, New York on April 10th, 2022 at the age of 98. Betty was born in Janesville, Wisconsin on June 18th, 1923, the eldest daughter in a family of four girls. After moving to Madison, Wisconsin, Betty met her partner for life, Alfred Adams. Betty and Al won scholarships to the University of Wisconsin, Madison and attended college on an accelerated schedule due to the need for men and women to join the WW II war effort. Betty graduated with a degree in Journalism and Al procured a job at Eastman Kodak in Rochester, New York with his Chemical Engineering degree. Betty joined Al in Rochester and they were married with just two witnesses on March 13, 1945. At the age of 42, Betty began her career with her oldest daughters in college and high school and her youngest just 8 years old. Her first job was as a proofreader for Wolfe Publications- Post Suburban Newspapers, where she excelled in her work and began writing the column “Gourmet’s Choice”, interviewing local men and women who loved to cook as well as renowned chefs such as James Beard. She was ultimately promoted to editor of the Greece Post newspaper and held that position for many years, mentoring younger staff in the craft of newspaper writing. Her skills led her to a new career as a public affairs and communications specialist for The Rochester Institute of Technology, Crestwood Children’s Center, and the Rochester Foundation. “Retiring” in her 70’s, she continued to write, freelancing for the George Eastman House, writing articles for local magazines including the magazine “Rochester Women” where she also served on the Advisory Board. In her 80’s she co-wrote and edited Robert Stevens’ book about Robert W.S. Stevens– a lawyer, politician and western rail and business entrepreneur from NY state entitled Thunderbolt from a Clear Sky – The Irrepressible Life of Robert W.S. Stevens.

Betty loved her adopted city of Rochester and was dedicated to supporting the community. She was president of the regional Camp Fire Girls, winning the organization’s highest award, the Luther Halsey Gulick medallion for her leadership in training leaders and advancing the group’s acceptance into the Community Chest of Rochester. Betty was an active member of Women in Communications Inc. and won their prestigious Matrix Award in 1985 in recognition of her long journalistic career and her dedication to advancing the role of women in communications. She was an avid supporter of the theater group, Rochester Community Players, where she served as a Board Member, donating her writing skills to promote their work and thoroughly enjoying the theater scene.

Betty lived a full life, as a mother, wife and a woman dedicated to her career and friendships. She supported and mentored younger professionals, helped to build supportive networks, and was known for her positive attitude, her love of entertaining, and her contagious laugh. She is survived by her three daughters, Margaret Adams Striebel, Leslie Adams Fleming and Elizabeth Adams; five grandchildren Jessica Striebel MacLean, Matthew Striebel, Quinn Fleming, Peter Striebel and Maia Fleming; and four great grandchildren Beatrix MacLean, Marlowe and Sam Striebel, and Verity Rossi-Fleming. A celebration of her life is planned for July 16th. Please contact Elizabeth Adams at elizabethjeanadams@gmail.com for details.

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Obituary of Kevin Grady

Kevin Grady

7/16/59-5/17/22

After many months of declining health Kevin died peacefully on May 17, 2022, with his loving, devoted girlfriend Debbie Bennett of 20 years by his side.

Along with Debbie Kevin is survived by his mother Mary Lou Grady, father Alan Grady and Mother in Law Carol Perry. His sister Bethann Acker(Michael) and sister in law Lori Padulo. His children Alyssa Bodyk(Joe), James Grady and step daughter Nicole Kralis(Frank). His nephew Brendon Acker. His grandchildren Lucas, Brianna, Ethan, Hailey and Christopher. As well as a host of life long friends and family.

Calling Hours will be Sunday from 10am-12pm at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. Rochester,  NY 14609.

In lieu of flowers please send donations to UR – Finger Lakes Donor Recovery Network

30 Corporate Woods, Suite 220; Rochester, NY 14623