Michele J. Foster “Cookie”
Passed away on Monday, April 3rd, 2023, peacefully surrounded by family after a long hard fight at her end of life.
Predeceased by her mom and dad, Nunny and Pappy; brothers Winks (Donna) and Butch; sister Toots; and nephews Timmy and Jeff.
Survived by her loving husband of 62 years, Charles Foster; daughters Sharri (Daniel) and Cindi (Christopher); grandchildren Tony (Katie), Nick (Victoria), Cara, Carli, Aley, and Christa; great-grandchildren Lucas, Aubrey, Gabriella, Benny, and Bailey; sister-in-law Nancy; and nieces and nephews Angie (Steve), Craig (Pam), Traci (Steve), and Jodi (Santos).
Michele was born on March 2, 1944, at home in North Belle Vernon, PA. She was known as “Cookie” by all of her family and friends in PA where she lived until she moved to Irondequoit, NY with her husband and 2 daughters at the age of 30. Michele was married before she graduated Belmar High School while her husband was on a leave from the Air Force Base in Lincoln, NB. After graduation she joined him and lived on the Air Force Base until his service was completed. They moved back to North Belle Vernon and were reunited with family and lifelong friends until her move to Irondequoit. Michele’s family continues to grow in New York where her immediate family resides.
Family and faith was the most important part of her world. Many car rides back to PA to visit extended family were made. She was the center of the “universe” for her husband, daughters, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. She lived for her family and they all knew that with all of their hearts. She was the most loving, selfless, caring, non-judgmental, beautiful human being everyday of her life; not only to family but to anyone that she met. She was the easiest, most comfortable person to spend time with and talk to. She preferred to spend time with family and friends more than anything! She knew everyone’s favorites and made sure all were content. She opened her home to others in need. She lived the perfect example of faith and unconditional love that all human beings should be to one another. She will be missed terribly and her family feels such a deep pain in their hearts for their loss, but they also know how very blessed they have been to have her in their lives. Her beautiful legacy will be in the hearts of all who knew her and imprinted forever on the hearts of her family. We love you! You gave us all so much to miss.
From Michele to her family (as found on handwritten notes in her personal prayer box):
Heavenly Father,
In you, my family is in good hands.
I pray for your wonderful blessings upon them
and for each one to feel your presence, strength, and love.
I ask you to protect my family emotionally, spiritually,
mentally and in every way.
Thank you.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Calling hours will be held Friday, April 14th 4-8PM at Dierna Funeral Home. Her funeral service will be Saturday, April 15th at 12PM at Dierna Funeral Home. Interment Irondequoit Cemetery.
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Remembering my very first best friend. Cookie and I spent many hours together when we were very young and throuhh our growing up years. She was always the sweetest dearest girl and i loved her very much. I know how much she will be missed, but she will always be in the hearts of all who knew her
Thank you Carolyn 💜 She always talked about you with such great memories and felt the same way about you!
Cookie and I were dear friends and neighbors all through high school, and though we lost touch over the years, it saddens me to know that she has passed on. From the obituary, I see that she was an avid believer, so that knowledge assures me that she has gone on to her heavenly home. My deep condolences to her family during this very difficult time of grief, and my prayers are with you for the Lord’s comfort to ease the pain of your loss. See you on the other side, Cookie!!
Michele, I will miss you, we were friends for 49 years. So many memories.
Your wings were ready but our hearts were not. Fly high and visit me often my friend, I will know it’s you as you will be the most beautiful butterfly. (Monarch).
Thank you Christine – I know she loved you dearly & she will be around us all – never ever to be forgotten 💜
Sonny, Sharri, Cindi and Families,
We are so sad to learn about the passing of our cousin, Michele (Cookie). Always enjoyed
spending time with her and her family at our family reunions. She was a beautiful person
with pretty blue eyes and a gentle, kind and loving nature. She will be welcomed home by
her parents, Uncle Jim and Aunt Ang, her siblings, nephews, and many relatives. May God
send you peace and comfort at this time.
Love–Cousins,
Emily (Mendicino) and John Watson
Sorry to learn of Michele’s passing. We send our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Belle Vernon cousins Tom & Elaine (Mendicino) Barger
We just found out about Michelle’s passing today and are still trying to process this sad news. She was such a sweet, beautiful and kind soul and a great neighbor. We enjoyed talking to her and will always remember her beautiful blue eyes that would just light up when she smiled.
Please know we are thinking of all the family and extend our most deepest condolences.
Nelson and Ivette Torres