Eugene E. Tolly (Staffieri) Irondequoit - May 2, 2021 at 88. Beloved husband of Carol (Staffieri). Loving father of Mary Beth (Dave) Schroeder and Stephen (Bonnie), grandfather of James, Shane (Jenn), Cara, Klaus and John, brother-in-law of Joan Staffieri. He also leaves many nieces and nephews, including Janice (Steve) Stockstill, Terri (Terry) Marta, Donna (Marcus) Whitworth, Michael (Sherry), Mark (Todd), and special niece Sandra Ville. Predecesed by parents Dalmer and Mary Tolly of Buffalo, Oklahoma; brothers Dalmer (Sybl) and Henry (Gladys). Friends may call Friday 4-8 PM at Dierna Funeral Home 2309 Culver Rd. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated Saturday 9:30 AM at St. Cecilia Church. Private Interment. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in his memory to St. Ann's Community or the Alzheimer’s Association.